Major Girlfriend Problems?
A few days ago I was invited to spend the night 2nite with my best friend. I've been doing that for oh... 12 years or so every New Years. Today my gf asked me to come over 2nite. So I told her about my friends house but I also said I would talk to my parents... Well she started cussing me out cause it's our anniversary tomorrow and I made plans with my friend (before she even told me she wanted me over btw). Apparently I ruined everything. So I got word that it was ok and told her that, but she insisted that I go to my friends house and said she didn't wanna see me anymore anyway. she forced me to go see my friend. So an hour or so later she texts me and says she wants me to come.. I told her she forced me to make plans with my friend and so I can't now cause I promised my friend I'd come. So then she said she hated me with everything and told me I was putting her second and she said she was breaking up with me if I didn't come over tonight... What should I do about the relationship???
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Just be careful here. This girl isn't even married to you and is still making demands and requests that she then obviously changes her mind on, and makes it seem like you are the bad guy here. Sounds like she is actually immature in serious relationships and needs time and years to gain that maturity. If possible, sit down with her and let her know she is important, but so are your friends and you have no wish to muck them around with on/off decisions, either. Good luck with it all. BTW when you are with your friends, turn your phone off so you can concentrate on their company.
I once had a girlfriend like this, look man, you did nothing wrong, you wanted to go but she angrilly insisted you go to your friend but If you know this is her behaviour you should have gone to her because obviously her temper had got the better side of her, anyways the fault rests with her because her mind changes per second. If you really love her don't let her control you, my ex who used to do this once told me that she does it but also likes it when I show her that I'm no puppet but girls differ so do what you think is right
She shouldn't break up with you over that and if she does she's very childish and immature. She can't just keep changing her mind and expect you to read her mind. Just tell her that you're sorry, but you didn't know what to do because she told you to go to your friends, just try and make her understand. If she can't, she needs to grow up!
Hmmmmm. This is difficult. Because you obviously don't want to break up with her, unless you do, so I think you shold just call her, don't text, and tell her that you're confused. Because she already said it was okay that you went. So this is kind of her fault. If she is willing to break up with you over something that dumb.. than she isn't a very good gf and is kind of being selfish.
If she really loved you she wouldn't break up with you because of that. Go to your friends house and she'll get over it, if she doesn't you have bigger problems.