lost all friends..how to get hem back?
okay so heres the thing..
i had loads of friends and a best friend who i loved soo much.
one of the friends and me didnt agree on things so we wernt friends anymore and that kinda madde it awkward in the group
but when me and the ex-friend got accepted at a school for liek really clever students. and when i told my friends they didnt believe me
and so between then they thaught i was a lier and was just coppying my ex-friend
i found out and got really upset because i loved these girls soo much and they thaught of that about me.
so in school and wenever i didnt talk to them and blanked then out completelly eve my best friend. i hung alone in class. lunchtime breack
and never o to dinner because im going to be alone.
its been 3 months of constant lonelyness and people feeling sorry for me.
now i want my best friend back and my other friends. this lonleyness is killing me... its unhealthy and i miss them guys soo much
ive cried and cried. and cried some more.
how am i going to get them back with out loosing the little bit of pride i have with myself?
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well that happened to me once.
but mine was more harsh :))
- we have this BFF Prank-a-thon week where we BFFs prank each other. i wanted my prank to be for everyone, so i put a super sticky mixture (like a glue but not a glue) on the cafeteria door 1 and fixed a mechanism that will pour soy sauce and feathers down if anyone touches the block i placed on the floor. then i invited them in the canteen and they slipped on the mixture and one of my friends touched the block and soy sauce and feathers where all over them. :)) but they hated me for that so much that i went home with blood stains all over my uniform.
WHAT I DID IS:
- apologize to them via twitter, facebook, phone, personally, myspace, plurk, formspring and in front of the whole school.
- i made GIANT cards for each of them.
- made a fool of myself by going to school wearing a chicken costume while holding a banner that says "I'M SO SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME"
it made them forget what i did and forgive me.
THE POINT IS, to make it up to someone:
- you must apologize
- you must tell them the truth (and in your case, prove that you weren't lying)
- flatter them.
- start talking to them
- gain their trust again
- be yourself (like how you were before the big fight)
- admit that you're lonely without them because they are your friends and you need them.
it may take a lot of pride out of you but friends are worth more
Only true friends come back for you..they obviously aren't very good friends. They're mad over nothing. Make some new friends and make them see how stupid they were to let you go. :)