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Social peer pressure to have a GF in High School is enormous, i know. But the reality is that it does not matter. I am an adult age 42 and I never had a GF in high school at all and it bugged me, but i ended up having a very plentiful dating life after HS. Dont rush it, it will all come to ya

This is very normal! There is nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend at the age of 14. I was my now husbands first girlfriend and we started dating when he was 17. So don't worry a girl will come along for you. Your just saving yourself early heartaches. Hope this helps.

well something like this can't be lumped into a category. most people are diffrent , as you already know some people have an easy time getting mates while others don't you not having a girlfriend is normal. your only a freshman give it sometime.

p.s there are girls your age asking this question all the time. u should look for them ....lol

Dude i am a freshman also,im popular, the tallest in the whole highschool,i look good i guess and i dont have a girlfriend and i havnt yet.I am one of those "nice guys" that gets walked all over so whatever.You arent the only one so hope it makes you feel better.

Oh absolutely! I didn't have a girlfriend from K through 12. Not a one! So Yea, it's absolutely normal. Then again, I'm gay so, normal for me anyway. I don't really know about u. Sorry!

wut the hell im a freshman and i already went out wit 2 freshman gurls 3 sophomore and 1 jr hey man u should go be a player and start talking to gurls the more u talk to gurls the more u get gurls all over your nuts try to by a P.I.M.P u can do it man it would only work if u not a nerd. aight

relax there mate - are you telling me there are no other 14 year old guys that you know who don't have girlfriends?

sure it's normal! you'll get a girl when one comes along that is worthy of your attention.

Yes,,,Dont worry when the right girl comes you'll be surprised,,Focus on your studies cause being smart is one great asset,Your education will lead you to succeed only if youre giving great attention on it,being well educated is one great step for a woman of your dreams,Some girls like men who has good future ahead of them,,,but if youre only looking for girls whose into world thing you gotta be rich,,,being rich needs to be smart and well educated too

dont worry ur normal your only 14 id worry when your seventeen and have never had a girlfriend

nah its normal. a few of my guy friends didnt have a gf til 18 years old even. unless you already found a girl that your really happy with, dont even trip!! i didnt have my first actual boyfriend until i was 17. plus, less drama for you.