As humans we sometimes forget it is not our place to judge anyone for anything. I see this so much in many "christian" attitudes. People have a tendancy to think they know what God wants and accepts and their attitudes and actions show their ignorance in such matters. It's kinda like Muslims who say non-practicing Muslims are not "true" Muslims and the same for Christians. No one knows the heart of another person. A person can love God and still sin, else we would not all be sinners. All that truly matters is the relationship you have with God and everyone else should keep their mouths shut on what they think is wrong or right.
Salam :) i'm a Muslim youngster residing in Canada. I positioned on hijab alhamdullilah and that's for the most area universal right here in view that i stay in a large city with an enormous Muslim inhabitants. I do get the few ignorant comments and idiots at school in spite of the actuality that who ask stuff like "yo were given a bomb lower than there hahaha". in spite of the undeniable fact that the hardest area is being diverse out of your people. Being a Muslim, activities, alcohol relationship boys wearing revealing clothing etc is haram, or perhaps as i do not desire to attempt this besides, it will be a touch awkward to ought to describe why i do not do it to those who evaluate it basically area of being an adolescent and its straightforward to them. Muslims residing in Muslim international places truthfully have it a lot less confusing even as it is composed of installation in. And with foodstuff it will be a touch complicated yet I continuously attempt to study the label if i'm no longer certain of the substances. yet i'd not wanna be the different faith no count number how confusing it receives and how diverse i think from actual everyone else, i'm happy to be Muslim :)
Us mere mortals have really big issues within ourselves and with others. Some of us have that thought from Allah in our heads but some of us still need to work on our insides.
Allahu alim. Just control your self and try not to judge others regardless of how they may percieve you.
And you have nothing to prove to them. Allah is our only and the best Judge.
Because Muslims are human. Humans are not perfect. Allah is the most perfect.
Hypothetically speaking, don't worry about what people think. You might smile too brightly, and someone will say you are trying to attract male attention....ridiculous...which is what people can be. Ridiculous.
Perhaps some Muslims may have forgotten what this deen teaches regarding love and hate. Don't be too extreme in your love and hate- the thing you love you will come to be what you hate and the thing you hate will become the thing you love.
Or, it could be hatred directed at something you might be doing (drinking, drugging).
Or they forgot that the way they judge is the way they'll be judged.
we must learn to forgive, but most of time people dont forgive. The prophet peace be upon him ,always forgive. forgive and pray for jannat too for that person. if there is a spiritual disease in the heart then people dont forgive,lack of knowledge, thats why we have to do our purification of our heart to remove all spiritual diseases,arrogance jealousy, pre-judge etc..then will become true human being.may allah help you make it easy and give us tawffiq to make amal.
sister, weather u have just accepted faith or u have repented, Alhumdulliah Allah has forgiven all yr sins.
if there r ppl who want to bring yr past in front of u again and again then, try to advise them to fear Allah.
Boz Prophet (saw) said the one who has repented is like the one who didnt sin and Allah rerases all the past sins of that person when he/she accepts Islam.
if they listen to you then Alhumdulliah and if they dont then ignore them and be patient, i know it is hard but u have to be patient. bcoz Allah is with those who have patience.
seek Allah's help,
Allah asks us to seek help with prayer and patience. engage yrself in worshipping Allah much.
depends on the individual. some muslims are VERy stubborn and ignorant but others arent so much. unfortunately. the majority are stubborn and ignorent. most muslims have come from other places. and tend to stick to there culture and what they beleive is true because of it. they tend to pass there culture to other people and so on.
and it also depends on the education. understanding and logic gets you through problems. for exampl, if you did something wrong in the past but changed for the better then people who understand will understand, otherwise not.
you just need to find the right people who are open-minded.
i always argue with my mum. she refuses to budge even when i prove to her she is totally wrong, just because of her culture. sometimes arabs can be so narrowminded. haha
because Allah swt as the creator loves his creation and wants to forgive. We as human beings do not have the same capacity and are susceptible to the whisperings of shaytaan who is the greatest spreader of enmity and jealousy.
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As humans we sometimes forget it is not our place to judge anyone for anything. I see this so much in many "christian" attitudes. People have a tendancy to think they know what God wants and accepts and their attitudes and actions show their ignorance in such matters. It's kinda like Muslims who say non-practicing Muslims are not "true" Muslims and the same for Christians. No one knows the heart of another person. A person can love God and still sin, else we would not all be sinners. All that truly matters is the relationship you have with God and everyone else should keep their mouths shut on what they think is wrong or right.
Salam :) i'm a Muslim youngster residing in Canada. I positioned on hijab alhamdullilah and that's for the most area universal right here in view that i stay in a large city with an enormous Muslim inhabitants. I do get the few ignorant comments and idiots at school in spite of the actuality that who ask stuff like "yo were given a bomb lower than there hahaha". in spite of the undeniable fact that the hardest area is being diverse out of your people. Being a Muslim, activities, alcohol relationship boys wearing revealing clothing etc is haram, or perhaps as i do not desire to attempt this besides, it will be a touch awkward to ought to describe why i do not do it to those who evaluate it basically area of being an adolescent and its straightforward to them. Muslims residing in Muslim international places truthfully have it a lot less confusing even as it is composed of installation in. And with foodstuff it will be a touch complicated yet I continuously attempt to study the label if i'm no longer certain of the substances. yet i'd not wanna be the different faith no count number how confusing it receives and how diverse i think from actual everyone else, i'm happy to be Muslim :)
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Once you take your Shahada you are a clean book, an unwritten page and only Allah is your judge.
People are not all forgiving and all merciful unfortunately, but Allah is, we are flawed and therein lies the difference.
You dont have anyone elses forgivness to ask or seek. Its between you and God not you and other muslims.
Masha Allah sister on becoming a muslim, a wonderful day for us all. Allahu Akhbar.
wa Alaikum Salam
It seems that you have hit the bullseye.
Allahs is the most Forgiving.
Us mere mortals have really big issues within ourselves and with others. Some of us have that thought from Allah in our heads but some of us still need to work on our insides.
Allahu alim. Just control your self and try not to judge others regardless of how they may percieve you.
And you have nothing to prove to them. Allah is our only and the best Judge.
salam
Because Muslims are human. Humans are not perfect. Allah is the most perfect.
Hypothetically speaking, don't worry about what people think. You might smile too brightly, and someone will say you are trying to attract male attention....ridiculous...which is what people can be. Ridiculous.
Perhaps some Muslims may have forgotten what this deen teaches regarding love and hate. Don't be too extreme in your love and hate- the thing you love you will come to be what you hate and the thing you hate will become the thing you love.
Or, it could be hatred directed at something you might be doing (drinking, drugging).
Or they forgot that the way they judge is the way they'll be judged.
Allah subhana wata'ala knows best-
we must learn to forgive, but most of time people dont forgive. The prophet peace be upon him ,always forgive. forgive and pray for jannat too for that person. if there is a spiritual disease in the heart then people dont forgive,lack of knowledge, thats why we have to do our purification of our heart to remove all spiritual diseases,arrogance jealousy, pre-judge etc..then will become true human being.may allah help you make it easy and give us tawffiq to make amal.
Wa alaykum As Salaam Wa Rehmatlilahi WaBaraktuhu
sister, weather u have just accepted faith or u have repented, Alhumdulliah Allah has forgiven all yr sins.
if there r ppl who want to bring yr past in front of u again and again then, try to advise them to fear Allah.
Boz Prophet (saw) said the one who has repented is like the one who didnt sin and Allah rerases all the past sins of that person when he/she accepts Islam.
if they listen to you then Alhumdulliah and if they dont then ignore them and be patient, i know it is hard but u have to be patient. bcoz Allah is with those who have patience.
seek Allah's help,
Allah asks us to seek help with prayer and patience. engage yrself in worshipping Allah much.
May Allah help you.
ma' salaama
depends on the individual. some muslims are VERy stubborn and ignorant but others arent so much. unfortunately. the majority are stubborn and ignorent. most muslims have come from other places. and tend to stick to there culture and what they beleive is true because of it. they tend to pass there culture to other people and so on.
and it also depends on the education. understanding and logic gets you through problems. for exampl, if you did something wrong in the past but changed for the better then people who understand will understand, otherwise not.
you just need to find the right people who are open-minded.
i always argue with my mum. she refuses to budge even when i prove to her she is totally wrong, just because of her culture. sometimes arabs can be so narrowminded. haha
and wow, congrats on finding allah
as-salamu alaykum to you to
:)
because Allah swt as the creator loves his creation and wants to forgive. We as human beings do not have the same capacity and are susceptible to the whisperings of shaytaan who is the greatest spreader of enmity and jealousy.