How do I tell this girl that I don't like her.?
Yesterday, I went to a party and met this one girl who looked really sad. I talked to her to see what was going on. She looked at me and said nothing was going on. So then I complimented her and said she was beautiful and perfect. She denied it. I told her I actually meant it. She still kept denying it. After a few more tries, she hugged me and kissed and told me she loved me because she never had someone that cared about her much. However, I do NOT like her nor lover her. I am very worried that if I reject her, she will cry in tears. I tried to say that but I just didn't want to hurt her feelings. Now she really loves me and won't stop thinking about me. I never knew this was going to happen. And even if I try to be nice to her when I reject her, I might think that she will break down.
How do I reject her in the BEST WAY possible?
Please, help me...
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Well it's important to mention first here, that you DONT lose the lesson you just learned:
Next time, stay away from sad girls. And if you tell someone they're beautiful and perfect, what did you expect her to think?? Don't do that until waaaaay later when you get to know her, and know that you want to be with her.
So to answer your question, you DONT reject her. You dont even make contact with her. Whether she breaks down in tears isn't your job to worry about; it's hers. Then do as the first sentence above... DONT lose the lesson here.
When you see a sad girl, comfort her.. But don't lead her on.
Calling a girl beautiful and perfect.. that leads a girl on.
She likes you now, but I'm sure she's not stupid. Tell her you don't like her simply. She'll be fine. Letting her continue thinking this way will hurt her much more in the long run. You need to tell her straight fowardly, as soon as possible.
Of course it'll hurt her! It's going to hurt her no matter how you say it. But, she will get over it. And if you're not straight forward she may feel the need to stick with you, thinking there's still some hope.
There's no easy way to do it. But you need to get it over with.
I've been in this situation before and granted it is horrible, if you be nice about it, she will be happy. Tell her truthfully that she is a nice person but your just not looking for a relationship, just make sure you don't ignore her because she will hate you. Good luck mate.
Wow, she fell for you quick didn't she?
Why don't you get one of your forever alone friends to go out with her or something, because if she fell for you that fast, then she can do it for them too...
To make this work, you need to just talk to her less and less, and she wont need your attention - as she will be getting your friends
Hope I helped(:
The best way is to tell her smoothly that you don't.if you don't dare to do this then try to ignore her she will understand.if she doesn't then you try be a bad guy with her:)
Tell her
i cant vote so (James)
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