Help!! The girl I like wants to go out with another guy?
There is this one girl at my tennis camp that I like and despite being a normally shy guy I managed to talk to her and we talk time to time. I haven't told her that I really like her yet but thats because an older kid at the camp (he's 17) has all of the sudden decided to flirt with her and she seems very interested in him rather than me. She's 15 and I'm 15 so I thought that would be perfect. He is taller/older than me, way more outgoing than me and better at tennis. However from what I've overheard from the older girls at the camp he's a player and uses girls just for sex. I'm a nice laid back guy unlike him and definitely respect women. I don't know what to do to make her like me more than him and i'm afraid is going to be too late soon. Any advice?
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yes I have very good advice , Be honest with her tell her how you feel about her before it,s to late ask her to the cinema because if you dont the other bloke will , go on text her now wot are you waiting for ?
The only 2 things she can say is yes or no , or if she says she needs time to think give her that time , us older guys were young guys to you know
ok here is what you do. when you two are having a conversation just tell her. I know you might be nervous and afraid by her response but don't be, some girls find it cute. in your conversation say this, "i need you to know i really like you alot or i feel like my heart will explode." then tell her how you feel about that guy. Say, "sometimes when your around that guy i get really jealous and i just couldn't sit back and watch any longer." Some girls like it when another person is jealous, that way they know that their feelings are true. If she totally rejects you, then i'm sorry, but you deserve better. It's better to have somebody who would love you back than to not love you at all.
too late already, she has her eyes on someone else, get into a death match with the other guy, winner takes bride, just kidding, I think if she likes you, then she would have given you a chance.