Guys please help with some of your advice on a manwhore situation im in.?
Longstory short: Ive been talking to a guy who isnt the most faithful person. Its been 2 months since we started talking and hanging out. He has a girlfriend there on and off like every week. I know im not the only girl he is talking to, but I am starting to have feelings for him. Yet unlike all the other girls I havent done anything with him no more then a peck on the cheek, and yet he still stays around and tries. My question is he starting to like me a little bit more then just a poetential lay? Reason why I ask this is because he seems to not know what to say when we are alone and he let me drive his inch off the ground all done up Infinity G35. That car is his baby, he doesnt even let his friends drive it let alone his own girlfriend, yet he aloud me to drive it, and I dont even have my license. Does he like me or is it just that he wants to get in my pants that bad that he is willing to take a chance and nearly destroy his car. Please I need some much needed male help.
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Now don't be mad at me i'm just giving advice. But honestly your are just one of his side girls. Your no different form the rest. He just treats you better. Its almost like celebrities. You know how rappers give money or take there girls shopping or let them drive cars. Its just to show you off. You may think your getting the better half of it but your not. Your getting the worst. Has he even talked about you guys future together. Or even initiated that you be together. Take it from someone whose been through it. Either let him go and cut all communication or be straight forward with him and ask him without telling him how you feel first, How he feels about you.
I've been close w.a guy whose close w.other girls & its almost the same situation... I've come to find out that no matter how nice he SEEMS,the thing was/is hes gonna try & become a friend first... You'll think hes no harm.. by becoming friends... that'll allow you too let him get "closer" & more personal with you.. just like you would w.any other friend.. & by that it'll go from where your at now..too friends...too friends with BENEFITS... then its probably going to be a ****-&-chuck.. just saying.. cause if you DO let him get to you before you guys are actually dating hes NOT going to stick around :/ I'd keep an eye out & its not a good idea to do any more then kissing anyways if hes on & off w.another girl..I think hes just trying to get closer :/ Bleh.. but good luck!
Well you have to stick around and see and that's what a player does. They mess with your head and make you fall for them but hey, there is that chance when a guy might fall for someone. You need to talk to him about it and ask him because no one on here can give you a perfect answer simply because were not him. The closest your gonna get to is asking him yourself.
the reason he has so many girls is because he makes them all feel that they like them more than just a potential lay. Every girl wants to feel she is the special one. thats what these manwhores do.
Trust me, dont fall for him.
i don't think he likes you that much but maybe a little and be probably Only trust you that's all sorry but i'm right because i'm a boy so i'm right i know these things trust me
IF YOU REALLY FEEL SOMETHING FOR HIM DON'T OPEN YOUR LEGS CAUSE AS SOON AS HE GETS SOME HE'LL MOVE ON. AT THE SAME TIME DONT BEE TOO LONG WITH OUT GIVING HIM ANY CAUSE OTHER WISE HE'LL MOVE ON TOO. GOOD LUCK
He is just waiting to get a shot at that puzzie.
hmm...maybe he likes you more, but just becareful ok with what you decide with...ask him has he real feelings for you aswell like and see if things start kicking off der! :)
Sounds like it could be either. Why not ask him?
Not faithful = he doesnt really care for you.
sorry :[