Can long distance work, he's in the army and we love eachother so much?
We have only been on two dates, but it's the most wonderful, natural thing in the world being with him. He told me he loves me, but he's going away in a week. We talk every day and night, and it's great. We both know what it's like to be hurt/ cheated on and we are both afraid of getting hurt. He told me he loves me, and I love him too. We have this connection that is just indescribable. He's leaving for boot camp in a few days and from there going to college in a different state up north. I go to college here in my state. We have such an amazing emotional connection, I don't know when we can see each other again, but by God I love this guy and it feels too right. what to do? THanks for your advice.
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Long distance relationships work if both sides really love each other. If he is loyal and is willing to put in effort to keep the relationship alive, and you are too, it will work out fine.
It's probably easier for you to be attracted to someone else while he's gone than he would because he's going to boot camp. Are you able to keep loving him while he's gone?
It seems to me that you're really in love with him. If he's in love with you too that deeply, I think you should try to make this work. It might end up really well especially when he comes back. The distance that you two had apart form each other may possibly strengthen your feelings for each other.
To make it work, you're both going to have to put in effort to communicate with each other. Mail, E-mail, Calls, whatever is possible. Communication is key to make a long distance relationship work out and intimacy by communication will be extremely important. Good Luck!
(Don't do long distance if you can't handle the work and effort. Know that long distance relationships even if you are committed, your partner might not be as and you MIGHT be heartbroken. This is a possibility.)
i'm interior the right comparable difficulty (in simple terms approximately). different than we've met a number of circumstances in individual and we lived jointly for a short while and we presently have been given married in the previous he left for OSUT. in case you have never met, i'd say flow on. Its particularly puzzling to hold an prolonged distance courting interior the army while you're no longer married (or are not going to get married for a whilst) by way of fact they only get 30 days off a three hundred and sixty 5 days.