bi friend told me she likes me?
and then she said if i think i want to experiment, that it's o.k with her... what does that mean? anyways. we're both 16. i dont think anyone else knows she's bi. but, i guess i am bi-curious. idk what she means by experiment, and i don't want to do anything serious... just maybe hang out with her more and see if i like her
i don't think i'll ever be bi, but well, who knows right?
Update:i'm thihnking i might take her offer... but i dont know how to say it. i'd feel too weird. and this was a few days ago so what if she doesnt even liek me any more?
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experimenting is when you have sex with her (same gender sex) doesnt mean you are gay you just wanna know what it feels like
I'm pretty sure she still likes you go ahead and have fun experiment I mean if she starts touching you in places you don't want her to then hold her hand or move it and tell her to slow down. You said yourself you guess your bi-curious so why don't you just go ahead and try it to see if you like it.
I think you two should have a movie night or something & cuddle then outta nowhere just say "I'd like to take you up on that offer now lets get to it " just kidding don't say that but you should really try to cuddle with her or something if she likes then of course she'll hold you and pull you closer if she doesnt react right away just give her time she could be nervous or something she shouldn't though if she's bi and has had experience with a girl before. If you want more info feel free to email me.
My advice would be Just flat out tell him, but make sure you are either ok with him not being Bi and not feeling the same way, or be prepared to give up your friendship with him. If I was you I'd just tell him that I'm Bi and that I find him attractive if he responds positively then great if not and you still value your friendship then back off
she's not gonna switch her feelings from one day to the other. she said she likes you, then she does,, and by experiment she means to be with her, experience some sexual acts with her of course...
don't feel obliged to do anything.. you can take her offer and hang out with her a little more, see if you really like her maybe, then you see if you two can be together,, it's too soon to think about being with her now, cuz you seem to just be interested yet.. so .. if you figure out that you like her, go for it! bi-curious, bi... or whatever else, don't think about labels..!! go with whatever feels good and confortable to you!
By experimenting she means to get together and do something to each other like kissing or something sexual, so you can know if your gay or not. If your bicuriuos then try it cuz if your friend likes you i don't think her feelings will change in a day or two.
When she asked if you wanted to experiment she means that you two could mess around and find out if you are gay/bi too.
Go for it if you want to.
Experimenting can also just be "fluffy" stuff, like kissing and such, and if you feel uncomfortable, just tell her. Don't pressure yourself to do something you don't want to do or not ready for.