Why does everybody hate me?
It's like I'm ignored all the time and I don't exist.Not one person likes me.I moved to a new place and I now check my fb and see how happy my friends are.They don't bother saying hi or whatsoever.Its like they were happy I moved.I never have luck in friendships.I just don't.I really wish to have cool friends to hang out with.But I feel like I don't exist and I am invisible.I am tired.
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Everyone is living their own lives it don't mean they don't like you. If they are your good friends they will talk to you on facebook. But if they don't then you should find new friends. you just got to have the confidence and don't be hard on yourself everyone has a friend leave or breakups. Friends drift apart they grow up and get old or just moves on and grows apart. I have had friends that we both grown apart its normal. some broke up with me because I was a angry person. My dad had much to do with that as well. Its hard nowadays but you will get through it. Just make new friends. But remember you moved so they wont see you everyday and they will continue to live and stay friends with the kids in there school. Do not take it to personally if you were still there they would probably still be around. I think your upset you moved and you miss them and they are busy and don't have so much time to talk to everyone. it feels like they are ignoring you but its just a busy world.
Well those are not your friends my dear. Why do people claim to have friends yet these people don't even know you exist. Please look up the definition of the word "Friend" and if you think negative then that's what you are going to attract. Don't wait on others speak to you first.You must open yourself up to people in order for them to pay you some attention. Everyone's different
I doubt any of your "friends" hate you, they simply don't know how much you miss them. Drop 2-3 of them a msg along the lines of, "Hey, WTF you been up to... miss ya!". Letting them know you're still thinking about them isn't going to distance them further from you but you'll have to remember that NOT being around them on a daily basis will keep you from their daily mindset :(
As to your new move... that's a gradual progression. I look at that along the lines of trench warfare, every clique has their demarcated lines and any newcomer will have to fumble blindly until s/he finds their niche. I'm not going to lie, it may take awhile but don't stress.
What interests do you have? Maybe look up groups on meetup.com?
Nobody hates you, they just don't know you :)
First thing your not ignored i answered you :) 2nd I'm a Counselor this world is full of ignorant people who pretend their friends.if you would like to talk more let me know. :)