Why can't I find a good guy?
I've always been a really devoted girlfriend. I love being there for my man and cleaning, cooking, rubbing his feet, etc. I help guys with things they ask, like financial planning and car problems. I put out and i'm really good in bed. I don't "let myself go". If they see me without makeup and nice clothes on it's usually because we're having a lazy day or because I decided to cook them breakfast before I got ready. I try my best to be a positive, fun person. I like to be spontaneous and have new date ideas. I compliment and flirt. All of the above and it seems like I just can't find a decent guy. I don't think i'm overbearing, I just like to have a good time and cute sweet nothings with guys. When it comes down to it though i'm always getting hurt. I have dated a nice guy, a known *** hole, an ugly guy, hot guys, etc. It just gets me nowhere. Is it because i'm young and guys my age aren't as mature as I am relationship wise? Is there something else i'm missing?
Answers & Comments
There are good guys out there, but they're probably not up to what you want physically.
I'm 30 and have never been on a date.
I'm loyal and nice, make $2000 a month (Stable, but not great).
In the least you wouldn't have time gaps that you would have to ask me about.
Everyone wants something for nothing.
The guy you are physically attracted to is probably full of plunder on the inside.
The physically lackluster guys are probably the nice ones, but not the most pleasant face to wake up to each morning.
Everybody's "stuff" stinks, but when the guy is short and not very attractive I suppose that makes it worse.
you hit the nail on the head by saying guys your age are immature (in general) so stop dating guys your age and consider guys older ---- 3 to 6 years would be about ideal ---- maybe stop trying so hard ---- personally i prefer not made up ---- you dont "let yourself go" ---- its who you are ---- make up etc is basically fake and a lot of mature guys would prefer real ---- if you had to put on your face before you go out most of the time i would not be interested ---- have fun
mature guys dont use labels like "easy" thats really childish ---- we are not in a relationship only for sex ---- we want to know you for you to know us to understand each other
Maybe you're just shooting blanks when it comes to guys and cant find the right guy. I have the opposite problem, I find the right guys but they are all so nice that nothing ever goes anywhere cos we are both scared
maybe you need to do things for yourself more, keep it balanced its really awesome that you do things for the guy/your guy but you cant let them walk all over you, make yourself happy too, treat yourself too & i dont mean putting makeup on to look pretty for the guy &putting out doesn't win you favor with guys it makes you look easy and it could make guys get bored of you really fast stop giving into what the guy wants all the time...basically you are missing respect for yourself
What's your age? Because you sound like my perfect girl(: the one I always see in my dreams(: I have that sorta problem too except I'm a guy instead. Text me sometime(: 805-266-9524 (:
Like most young girls your have a knack for finding the douches lol. You'll figure it out eventually...maybe
Good guys are out there. I've always considered myself one, but that doesn't mean much. You just haven't had one that fits you yet.
I hate to answer a question with another question but here it is. What do you define as a good guy? Answer that first, then we'll give you our opinions.
Maybe you should wait for the right guy to find YOU
Read: "I put out and I am really good in bed."
Translate: "I'm easy"
Guys mind: "She's a good fu**"
Me: Maybe you should keep that part out and be more mysterious.