I just got out of a nasty break up and this guy I've known for soo long was there for me. He let me go off about my horrible dad and my ex boyfriend. He let me get it all out and then the next day...nothing. he doesn't reply to me or anything. What happened? What do I do?
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There could be a lot of reasons why he stops texting you randomly.
1) He think you're just a texting buddy. So he doesn't want to text you all the times. He only text you when he feels like it. And the reason why he acted caring toward you by listened to what you got to say because he knows that is what girls like to do. And he wants to get you to like him. And it seems like you do because you like how he listened to you. True?
or 2) He's very busy during his day, so he doesn't have time to text you much. But I doubt that. But if that were the case, then I think he's not interested in you. If he were, then he'd always try to get your attention and text you all the times. (that is what I did with my girlfriend. =P )
or 3) He wants to feel like an amazing man for a day or so. By waiting for you to text him first or act obsessive toward him. Because that's what some guys do. They do bun of nice things for a girl and then ignore her. Because they want to have an impact on the girls. So if you text/call him first than the usual, then he'll likely to take that as a sign of "liking him."
I think what you should do is just ignore him if you don't like him that much. I think he's either full of himself or that he doesn't like you in that way. Trust me, if he likes you, then he would always trying to talk to you and all that.
How long has it been? Did he just not text you for a day? Maybe he's busy or broke his phone or something.
Patience, you'll know soon enough what's up with him.
Just wait it out