well i've been in realtionships with men but i've never been happy........i never knew why. Even when things were going well it didnt feel great. In the back of my mind i used to think about girls sexually but never thought anything of it...just thought everyone thinks like that at times...i'm just being curious.....but since i've been single i cant stop thinking about women.....being with women and having a realtionship with a woman.......i went as far as getting to know some gay women online....and i felt really happy...i have no desire to be with any men and dont feel even attracted to men......i would much prefer to be looking at a woman.......i dont know any gay people in my area only men.......so am i gay?
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It kind of sounds like it, but you are the only one who can truly answer that question : )
Hun, I can't say if your gay for sure or not. But from what you said above, I would say yes. Its whatever makes you happy. That's all that matters. and if you feel better with a women, go for it. There may be women in your area that are gay, but just haven't expressed it openly. Try the Internet again, or continue with this lady that you already found online. I wish you the best of luck, and hope you find the happiness your looking for. Take care.
If you are a woman attracted only to women, you are a lesbian. If you are a woman attracted to both women and men, you are bisexual. Only you can say to whom you are really attracted.
Why don't you try dating a woman and see if you like her or fall in love with her? By dating, I don't mean jump in bed on the first meeting. I mean go places, do things, get to know her very well and see what you feel. Your experience will give you the answer you seek.
sounds like it to me...how did you go about meeting gay women online chat rooms or what cause im in a similar dillemma and don't know any gay women but would like to find some to talk to and stuff.
im bi, im attracted to both men and women. but in my opinion i would guess your a lesbian, but no one can make that decision for you. if women attract to you the most, and guys dont at all go with your gut feeling and stick with the sex that you appreciate and care for the most.
Just be yourself. Be with whoever makes you happy.
You could be bisexual. A lot of people are.
at this point i think you're not gay.