How to get to know a quiet girl better?
I want to get to know this really quiet girl better, but she doesn't open up much, and she's pretty shy to ask me questions. So what can I do? My friend suggested playing 20 questions with her.
Thanks!
I want to get to know this really quiet girl better, but she doesn't open up much, and she's pretty shy to ask me questions. So what can I do? My friend suggested playing 20 questions with her.
Thanks!
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20 questions will probably just make a quiet girl feel awkward. My best bit of advice would be to have patience. Most shy girls (I am one) open up considerably the more you're around them. You'll have to do most of the talking at first, but she'll probably slowly contribute more. Use your observational skills to figure out something she's interested in and talk to her about that.
DONT play 20 questions with her... just be yourself quiet girls are the best. trust me take the time to get to know her. it will take a while. just start by like "can i borrow a pen?" BAM instant communication starter then ask her why she is in class.. make her laugh once or twice leave it for the day... and then pick it up next time guaranteed she will be thinking of you all night
20 questions may get quite annoying and boring. THOUGH, it is better to make it a game instead of making it seem like you're probing her with questions. lol. I would say just try daily to get to know her. When she decides to open up more and more each day...you'll know more and more. (:
That's a really good idea to help her open up. It will get her talking more and help her get over her shyness. She'll feel more comfortable as you talk more.
ugh i love this im the quite girl!! sometimes.. check what she likes or her intrest talk about that. tell her jokes:) or stories doodle with her thats my favorite (pass a piece of paper back and forth with doodles).. dont text her thats weird.. 20 questions may work as long as its back and forth like you ask 1 she asks one and add your own personal stories to it..
well i am having that problem right now as i type so we both in the same boat i suggest you just talk to her and say i anything ask questions
I would just slowly converse with her until she realizes you just want to know her! Once she gets more comfortable with you she may open up more. Good luck! :)
just open up to her about yourself and she will see that you are easy to talk to and open up more to you. If that fails just be honest and tell her you like her and you would love to get to know her.
never play 20 question with anyone....ever...evr! its just awkward..just giv her space and be sweet wen u do hang out
just say hi and start talking about u...she will eventually open up...