How can I get my boyfriend back?
On the 25th of March this year, my boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me. He said he didn't want to and that still loved me. The reasons why he chose to do that was because we fought a lot, we didn't have much time for each and I (in the last weeks) kept asking if he wanted to break up because he was acting like he wanted to. He did it because he though it was for the best. He messaged me later that day asking if I was okay, so I called him and he said then that he wanted to break up with and that we're friends nothing else. So, on that day I went to his to give him the stuff he gave me back. My mom, practically drove me there and told me I had to do it, and he then told me that because of that he lost feelings for me and started to feel empty. He said that he was thinking about getting back with me, but that changed his mind. He said today he misses being with me and that breaking up still hurts. But at school he keeps going out of his way deliberately to stare at me, he does it on lunch breaks and in class. And every time I see him by himself he looks so sad and upset, and our friends have noticed it too. I love him so much, and I want him back and I want to fight for him, I'll do whatever it takes. How can I get him back?
He says he wants to be single ad has no feelings, but at the same time he misses being with me and that breaking up still hurts. Help :( (I would like to try, I can't just give up, but if I don't get anywhere, then I'll leave him be)
Thank you!
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I would tell him how you are feeling and let him know that you would still want to be with him but not that relationship a new one..one that is different one that is better. If that does not change his mind then though love tell him you have a few things to do and avoid him for a little while as hard as it is if he knows you are there for his beck and call then it will be tough he knows he can come anytime you will always be there if he sees that you are not always gonna be there then if he really wants the relationship it will work..distance makes the heart grow fonder and if it is meant to be it will.. just do not sit around waiting for him to figure out if he wants you.. while you are waiting for him true king maybe right in front of you.. be strong because you don't want to be with someone anyway that has to question there love for you...I
I'm guessing that he got excited thinking about dating new people and broke things off with you, and then realized those other people weren't so plentiful. He had to find an excuse to not take you back, or he'd have to admit he was an idiot.
You know how much girls like for guys to fight for them? That's exactly how much guys hate for girls to do the same thing. It makes us all feel girly ... which is really only great if you are one. He won't like it if you try to get him back. In fact, he may start to DISLIKE you for it. It's best for you to respect his decision and move on. Then, if he wants a second chance, he will come to you.
Good luck.
Dear Buddy,
There may not be any sort of difficulty going by your posting.
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G Senthil Iyappan