Why is my mum being so difficult? Its driving me insane!?
So Im 16 and my mum wont let me stay in my friends house? Ive stayed in her house loads of times before but now all of a sudden she just wont let me stay there anymore. I ask her why and she just keeps saying because i said so or its too short notice! Its driving me mad! I mean she should trust me Ive never done anything wrong and Ive known this girl since I was a child. Why wont she let me stay over? How can i change her mind?
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Maybe she hear something bad about your friends. Or maybe she has a fight with the mothers. Why don't you ask your friend, is there anything happen between your mother and her mum?
It would seem like you are hiding something.
Like you are trying to seem like the innocent one in the equation.
Anyway, It is not that she cannot trust you, it is that she cannot trust the world and the people inhabiting it. By 16 you should know this. And maybe she cannot, or should not, trust you? These days you never know, there are kids doing drugs, having sex. She just does not want you pregnant at 16! Or sick! Just let her go. Relax a little bit, then she will loosen up. Do not take it like it is a joke or just some stupid thing. To get her to change her mind tell her (TRUTHFULLY) that there will be adults and you will be supervised and stuff. Make sure she knows where you are AT ALL TIMES and what you are doing AT ALL TIMES. Take a cell phone with you if she lets you go. Also remember to ask about 2 weeks or a week before if you can go to your friends house, "Can I go to my friend's house next week?" If not then change it to next 2 weeks. If not still say next month. If she lets you go then show a lot of gratitude. And if you are doing something that you know you are not supposed to do then she is right for not letting you go! Just remember be good, and relax YOUR MOM IS DOING THIS BECAUSE SHE LOVES CARES ABOUT YOU! ps do not badger be patient
She knows what you are hiding from her, is why she won't let you stay over there.
she can trust you but she can't trust the world...