What should I do? Best Friend help...?
I'm in 8th grade, and I have a group of friends of about 4 - 6 girls including me. And we're all close friends, but there's this one girl that I'm by far the closest with, and we hangout a lot, live by each, ride the same bus, have 5 classes together, and on the same volleyball team. So basically we are always seen together. I've been friends with her since 6th grade and then became like "best friends" with her over the summer. So anyways out of nowhere, literally over night and for about a day she stops texting me, etc. At first I just rub it off, whatever. But then my other 2 close friends start acting weird and won't tell me whats wrong with her. So she randomly texts me saying, i'm sick of you treating me like crap, and I dont want to hangout as often?? I've done nothing wrong!! And turns out my other 2 friends had no idea what was going on! So I keep talking to my one friend, and she's like your not my only bestfriend, I have other friends too! And her other friends are also my goodfriends too! So I'm not sure at all what to do! I need help! Thanks!
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Answers & Comments
Until she wants to talk it out there isn't much you can do except ask her what she meant by you treat her like crap. It's hard being in 8th grade because so many times people will change on you all of a sudden. I hope it get's better but if not just let her know you care and try to find someone else to hang out with. She may get over it in a few days.
Just ask the one what you did wrong. Or just apologize and say I don't know if I did anything to hurt you or upset you but I don't like the way things are and I wish we could talk.
Think about how you treat her..if you really did nothing wrong...ask her what can you do to fix this problem..or ask what the problem is...if you really did something wrong, then apologize to her...and change.
Yup, you're definitely treating her like crap.
maybe you should take a second look at your self, are you treating her like crap ?????