I know no one can really answer this for sure, but I'd just like some opinions from some GUYS. There is a guy that started working the same place I do back in the summer. We've crossed each others paths on several occasions, and even made eye contact. I thought he was really cute and looked him up on facebook and it said he was in a relationship so I decided to just admire his good looks from a distance and that would be it. Well, this past weekend .. completely out of no where he stopped at my department and started talking to me. This is the first time I've ever heard the guy speak, period. He then spent his entire lunch break standing there talking to me. He then spoke to me a couple more times that day. The next time we worked together he kinda did the same thing. He stopped by the department I work and stood there and talked to me for like 20 minutes. So I checked his facebook again (we are not friends on facebook but his profile isn't private) and it stills says he is in a relationship. The funny part is that the second time he stood there and talked to me, my friend/co-working came in about half way through. She stood there and talked with us and even kinda probed him to admit he had a girlfriend (she knows how I've kinda had a thing for him) and he never mentioned a girlfriend at all. My question is, why is this guy all of the sudden talking to me, completely out of the blue...like why now, and do you think he's interested in me? And if so, what's the deal with that because he was a girlfriend? I'm very interested in him, but I'm just not sure what to think of this, it's just very weird to me.
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What does he talk to you about? If it's business-related, then I doubt there's any explanation needed...
If he just randomly stops by to chat, then maybe he finds you interesting. He enjoys talking with you and would like a friendship.
If it's the extreme case that he's looking to cheat, back off... You know that he has a girlfriend, so just be his friend. Nothing more. Try not to be flirty and tempt him into doing something both of you might regret.
If he acts flirty towards you, then make it known that he's making you uncomfortable. Remind him that he has a girlfriend, and that you don't date guys with girlfriends.
Good luck.
well, I agree with bluedevil.
He is not flirting with you so I would not over think it.
if he does get flirty and all, ask him straight up if he has a girlfriend...of course he could deny it.
it is odd that he suddenly goes to talk with you, maybe your friend told him.