Scorpio man unconvincing.?
Scorpio man unconvincing?
My scorpio boyfriend (after a year of chasing me back to the UK to be with me) and I, have been having alot of problems lately, yet stayed together. He has finished with me once, yet soon came running after a week, saying i was the best thing that had ever happened to him.
Latley, he's been treating/speaking to me quite badly, and I have been having problems with family, outside of our relationship. He has picked up on this, yet I haven't felt I could talk to him about it.
Tonight we had a talk, and he was asking what my issues/problems are with my past. But he asks in a way that is impatient, and frustrated, instead of acting in a way that is caring and sensitive. This makes me feel unable to speak to him about it. He also told me tonight that he cares about me in a different way to anybody else he has cared about.
Lately, I've been probing and pushing him to talk about his issues (which I feel are causing him to speak/treat me the way he has been lately). He clams up, which is understandable with him being a scorpio, and I now know that if he is going to open up to me, he will do so in his own time. I feel that I have been irritating him and annoying him lately with my nagging and questions. Tonight, I asked him what annoys him about me, and he says I annoy him everyday. He laughed then, making it light-hearted, and then said I annoy him in a cute way, and to him, it makes me look cute.
I've been doubting lately that he really wants to be with me. He's moody, quiet, and not very affectionate. We've had a lot of obstacles thrown in our path over the last six months. Problems which most women would have walked away from by now (not cheating, but things he has done in the past), yet we have stayed together. Perhaps he is wondering why I havent walked away from him?
Does this sound like a scorpio that cares? or a scorpio ready to walk away?
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He is indecisive and insensitive. I don't think he knows if he wants to end it or not. He may find himself very lonely without you, but when he IS with you, he gets annoyed. It's not your fault. He's just insensitive and not empathetic. He's just impatient with your replies, maybe he's having troubles of his own. He's telling you that he wants to be with you... there's many perspectives to this. Maybe he is greedy or just really two-faced. If he really did care about you, he wouldn't be so rude to you. You need to ask him how he truly feels about you. Even though it seems that you've had a similar conversation, i think he'll only be honest if you try to be honest. Yes, it's hard. Cause he's irritable and insensitive. He's asking too much out of you, and he's unaware of his actions. He needs to know that YOU feel uncomfortable telling someone so impatient and rude their problems.
Do YOU love him?
Scorpios are often perceived as being cold, insensitive and disconnected when they are quiet, which is not the case. When they are quiet they are deep, deep, deep in thought. When trust is of issue, it is hard for scorpios to open up and let things out. If he is not passionate with you, something is really bothering him and it is a protective mechanism. The constant questions to you is his way of trying to know, understand and figure you out because he wants to know every detail. It's the innate detective in him. Scorpios can also be insecure and tend to stay in bad relationship rather than be alone. Unfortunately, you are going to have to be the one to decide whether or not you want to be in the relationship and then either stay or end it. He won't. He will hold on to your relationship until someone else makes the decision to end it. If he does commit to you it will most likely be a life commitment. Don't base your decision on whether or not to stay in the relationship on what he feels. Base it on what you feel and what you want.
sounds like you have issues. go talk to a therapist and stop posting your diary online