Pregnant and losing my relationship.. because of ME?
I am about 6 weeks pregnant but we are not keeping the baby. This has been the most miserable 6 weeks of my life. Throwing up every day, 10 times a day. No energy at all, moody and miserable. Always so hungry. This is really taking a toll on my body. My boyfriend has been absolutely amazing throughout this and very supportive. But its me that has the problem. I keep asking myself... why does he want to be with me? I am no fun to be around, I am always so tired. I try to not complain so much about being hungry and tired but it gets hard. I just dont understand how he can be happy and faithful to me in a time where I am like this. He tells me that he really does understand how I am feeling and that he loves me and knows I am tired and stuff. But I still just dont feel right about our relationship. He wants to have sex all of the time, like we use to. And I want to as well, but I feel so sick all of the time and I am just so tired. It happens like once every 3 or 4 days. And I know he wants it more, and usually I would too... but my energy is dead. How do I snap outta this? I just need advice please. Thanks
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Your hormones are going crazy...chemicals make us do silly things. Print your question out show it to your partner and have a talk about it. It would be the best way to go about this situation and discuss your feelings.
Oh yeah 'He wants to have sex all of the time, like we use to.' - that's probably a good sign lol...but in the future take precautions its never good having to go through terminating a baby.
This is crazy, if he really loved you he would want to do whatever he could to make you feel comfortable and fun! As for the sex, well hello looks like there has been plenty of that, he can be patient if he really truely loves you. Pregnacy sex can be amazing and a lot of fun, give yourself time.. Your body i going thru a "CHANGE"Pregnancy is such a beautiful miracle that not every woman can experience! If you are able to care for this baby do not let your Boyfriend scare you into an abortion. If you are not able to care for this baby, abortion still may not be your best bet, I can guarentee you that if you do that, you will forever have a hole in your heart for whatever the reason maybe.....There are a thousand upon thousands of women that would love to give your baby a beautiful long life, I am one of them.... Please do not do what you will regret.
My first trimester was like that as well, and feeling sick like that mixed with the hormones make you very angry with everyone. I don't know if you're doing abortion or adoption, but if you make it past the first trimester you start feeling sooo much better. If you have an abortion, I've heard it can still last a few weeks but I really don't know.
you killing your baby because you think your bf will not love you any more and its taking a toll on your body seriously you have unprotected sex with your bf you would of know this would happen at some point all i have to say id you are so selfish get a life it really is people like you that upset me.