My teacher isn't attracted to me, but he blushes around me. Why?
Ok first things first, I do not fancy my teacher. I'm pretty sure he doesn't fancy me either, BUT I have noticed that he blushes a lot around me and I think I might intimidate him in some way
He's in his fourties, married and I'm seventeen and he blushes when he talks to me and when I'm around him. However I know that he isn't attracted to me because he's always shouting at me and making me feel bad in lessons
For instance one time he was in the room teaching 2 other guys in an extra catch up class and was talking to them and then when I walked in and sat down to join the 2 guys in the class he started blushing and then started rubbing his face lots but I could still tell he was blushing
When he talks to me sometimes I will see that his face goes red and this happens most times he's around me
I know he's not attracted to me because he's a teacher and it's not professional to have feelings for a student. So do I intimidate him in some way?
Answers & Comments
If he's only shouting at you (or you more than others) it could be that he DOES find some attraction to you and since he's unable to act on it, whether that's for legal or moral reasons, he acts that way towards you in an effort to fight it. He may not even be aware of it, but is struggling internally.
Typically, we don't pay much attention to that which doesn't cause us an emotional response. A simple example would be if someone that you don't know makes a rude comment about you. You may not ever give it another thought. But, if a boy you like does something like that, it might cause you to get pretty upset and you may fight back, etc.
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Since almost EVERYTHING has already been done, a writer usually has to work hard to distinguish themselves. Ideally, you do such a bang-up job that YOUR thing becomes the new go-to example of the classic theme.
You are not succeeding at that.
Don't quit your day job. And keep your savings, in case of car trouble. You won't be needing to pay for a Writers Guild card any time soon.
He is probably attracted to you, actually. He likely picks on you because he doesn't want you to figure it out. If I was in his situation, I wouldn't want the girl to figure it out.
Are you sure this blushing isn't from anger? lol
You are delusional, either that or he's a pedophile
He might be attracted but also very uncomfortable with that fact.
just bc its not professional does not mean that he isnt attracted to u... it doesnt mean he will act on it...and he might act mean to u to push u away or so he does not act on these feelings. and you know the age old saying "you hurt the ones you love"