My mom is jealous of me and my fiancé?
Is it possible for my mom to be jealous of me and my fiance? So today i was getting dressed because me and my man were going to waffle house. She wakes my dad up, and says take me to the waffle house. Then she stops me from leaving by having me do all of these chores and ****. So Terrance proposes to me with my ring in a strange and embarrassing way. But I was so excited, and I really love him. So I say yes. I tell go home and tell her and show her my ring, she tells me I'm to young because I'm 17. And My marriage isn't going to work, and we are going to be failures. WTF? Is she jealous of us? She is always comparing are relationship to her and my dads, and always telling me how I'm going to fail, and how my relationship is going to fail. It's pissing me off.
Update:She always is comparing are relationships. She down talks me and tells me I'm not going to be anything and, yes her and my dad are going through horrible times with there finances, and I'm always giving up my checks to them and ****, if I dont my live is a living hell. So read into the details people.
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No she isnt jealous of you, she is trying to protect you from making a big mistake or stupid decision. First of all, you shudnt get married before your at a legal age, and second of all, if you are only 17 and want to get married and are religious, you probably only want to get married to have sex. So yeah.
If you were old enough to live @ ur own house, and were like, 21 or older, I would say yes she is jealous and is weird but thats not the case now, is it?
17 is awfully young to make a lifetime commitment to someone and I think that's what your mom is trying to say. Listen to her and learn from her mistakes. If she has reasons that you shouldn't get married right now listen to them. Then you do the adult thing of looking at your life with Terrance and evaluating whether what she's saying is true for your relationship or not. If you can't do that then maybe you are too young to get married yet. If you can take that hard look at your life and come up with honest, healthy reasons to refute her than maybe your young marriage has more than the normal chance of making it.
Don't be pissed off at your Mother. She is trying desperately to keep you from making a very serious mistake. You have so much life to live and committing yourself to a life time relationship at 17 is purely fool hardy. At your age, you are more than likely just in love with love. Finish your education and set some goals for yourself other than marriage and a house full of children before you have a chance to LIVE.
Your mom has issues on her own, but that doesn't mean you should go out and get married. You are too young. Move out when you're 18 and get to know what it's like to work and pay bills. Rushing into marriage in order to escape is not wise. But, you most likely will do what you want anyway. You're the first person to go through this, right? Nobody knows. So go ahead. I wish you the best.
your mom is putting you thru college and determining to purchase your gas she's in all probability pissed you're dropping your tutorial factors on a guy marraiges that youthful no longer often artwork out if i've got been your mom, i'd decrease all ties except you agreed to concentration in simple terms on college
Not sure? Are your parents having a hard time with their relationship?
Maybe she is afraid of loosing you and seeing you happy maybe is making her miserable. Sit her down and talk to her about this