My mom is a single mother, she has two kids (me-18 and my 10 year old sister), she is with a man who isn't that great to her and she admits that she would leave him if she could afford it. But, she just simply can't afford being on her own. She does not make enough to rent anything that has enough bedrooms and is of decent quality, and the programs here that would help us find a place to live would take away too much money...we would have none left to buy anthing else like food or clothes with. As it is, I pay for everything on my own, so I can't help her out; and I am going to college (all paid for because she is poor and I am smart!)... so I can't work all the time. What could she possibly do? Are we honestly stuck in the land of "freedom?" We have no where to turn... our family members don't have enough room for us either. I really wish I could just buy her a home, but that obviously isn't a option. Is there any programs that could help? What can we do?
Update:-By the way...my mother refuses to go on any kind of welfare...she is way too prideful. I know that probably will make it ten times harder to do anything...but I can't force her. My mom was not even on welfare when she had me at 18...and she doesn't plan on starting now. It's not as simple as finding a new boyfriend because then where would we live? I feel as though we are truely stuck. She also does get paid child support for my sister because it barely helps (when he actually feels like paying).
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first of theres food stamps. second section8.she could be payin 8 dollars rent for a nice size apt or house in a decent neigbor hood . there is childsupport theres programs for single mothers.tell her to belive that god will bring her through if she trys
Agreed, your Mom is in a bad situation, but its all about decisions at this point. You are using way too many excuses for the situation. Let me ask you: What would you think if the guy were to beat your Mom so bad she had a lengthy hospital stay? Right, the answer is simple! She would leave him and suffer through the hardship(s) while you were in school. However she could possibly be saving your sisters life, whether mentally or physically. So I suggest you get out. Once your Mom's income is chewed up in living expense, I'm pretty sure there would be exceptions to your scholarship due to helping support the family. In fact, it would probably be easier to figure out how to work things out financially than it would be to stay in a home where there is no love.
Don't worry.... In a few short years you will be able to make an impact on your 14 year old sister and your Mother with your newly found success.
Good Luck.
Maybe your mom can try and find a new job that pays a decent amount of money. Try comforting your mom. Maybe she can find a new boyfriend who is nicer to her! I really wish I could help more. Good Luck!!