I am 17 and my girl friend and I had a bad day, so I called her friend to she if she could help!!!?
Her friend apparently took it the wrong way and thinks I am into her. She 1. Told my girlfriend I called her (which made her mad) 2. always complements me on how Ive lost weight and how cute I am 3. Apparently has dreams about getting with me and even marrying me 4. Told her boyfriend (my friend) about it all And 5. Is trying to split her and her boyfriend up.
It feels good that she compliments me but I would rather have my own girlfriend give me them.
She says that I am a physically attractive guy who has very desirable traits physically, mentally, and in my actions.
I dont want to confront her but it might be necessary.
But is it just her mixed feelings because her and her boyfriend are hitting a rough patch. Or does she acctually like me.
I really am not interested, I like my own girlfriend.
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first i would like to complement you on trying to help your gf by calling her friend...
now that that is over... you need to treat this as if your gf's friend really likes you even if you suspect that its just for jelousy's sake. you need to talk to your gf and tell her exactly how you feel. you also need to talk to your gf's friend, yes confrontation is necessary.
its very possible that this is related to her and her boyfriends rough patch and it is just as possible that it isnt. either way you need to handle it as soon as possible.
Are you sure youre not fooling yourself ?
Why do you want to know if we think she might actually like you ?
Why do you even care one way or the other ?
Confront her. No, dont contact her at all. Your entangling yourself into the situation even deeper.
FOCUS on your girlfriend.
This other girl isnt your problem
Okay. You are NOT stupid! Omgsh. I don't think it is a big deal u called her friend. Who knows your gf better than you? Ya.. her Bestie! But.. You deffinately need to set her straight now. Don't wait. Also, talk to your girlfriend and explain that you were just trying to have someone else that is close to her give you some advice.
she might be doing it because she knows you two are both in the same position so is using u to get back at her bf. and since she knows you are in the same rough point, she might try to see what it would be like to get with you, which would involve telling your gf that you called. this is a definitely have a talk situation before it decides to go too much further.
she probably is just using her to hurt her own bf. but that's besides the point. next time she says something. when she compliments you give a her short "thank-you" and that's all. and NEVER call her for gf advice again. sounds like she'd love for you 2 to break up so she can have you- so she won't give you any good advice. besides, it will just upset your girl.
I think you should copy this email and send it to your girl friend. She needs to know exactly how you feel about both her and her girlfriend. She also needs to know that her friend may not be a very trustworthy friend.
She is lucky to have a nice guy like you...
Tell your girlfriend what you think.
Stop talking to the other girl, she'll eventually lose interest after a while after trying to talk to a brick wall.
Oh MAN you screwed up!
Send flowers to your girlfriend and say you're sorry for calling her friend. Stop calling her friend. While you're at it, say you're sorry for whatever you did to upset your girlfriend in the first place, even if it wasn't your fault.
okayy dont everr call your qirlfriends friend man juz not cool!
&+ as fehr that other qirl and her boyfriend,take yourself outta the situation and tellher that you feel uncomfortable wiff her feelinq that way &nd youh love your qirlfriend,mk.&nd apoliqize to your giirl,G00D LUCK <3
you should have never did that cuz now she thinks your cheating on her just apologize and say what you feel to her and i guess that day was really bad.or go out with her friend becuz she cares for you more than your other girl does .